Deep down you want more from your life… but you’re scared what that might mean for the life you have now.
I know how that feels…
You’re a soulful woman with a kind heart, who has fallen out of love with your life and work, and your inner sparkle has left the building.
There’s something’s missing, you feel empty and fed up. You’re tired of feeling frazzled, chasing goals and being busy. You feel you’ve somehow failed, but you’re not entirely sure why. Maybe it’s because you look like you’re successful on the outside and it seems selfish to want more on the inside (clue: it’s not).
There’s this inner niggle…
That feeling you can’t squash. Less niggle than a persistent, insuppressible call.
A sense you’re here to do something different – serve the world in a bigger way, make money doing what you love. You worry you’re delusional, chasing a pipe-dream – and you fear what others might think.
But the niggle keeps niggling anyway…
“What if the task is simply to unfold, to become who you already are in your essential nature – gentle, compassionate, and capable of living fully and passionately present? How would this affect how you feel when you wake up in the morning?” Oriah Mountain Dreamer
It’s time to do something different..
but you’re not sure how or where to start. You’re scared it might mean making scary changes… what you want is some kind of reassuring, but empowering guide…
A catalyst who sees your gifts and helps you see them too. Someone who’s been there, understands, won’t judge you and knows how it feels to hide behind a veneer of perfection, when inside, all you want is permission to be who you actually are.
That’s where I come in.
I’m Helen Rebello – the Peaceful Pathfinder, and my passion is empowering soulful women to fulfil their potential and create success on their terms, one simple step at a time.
I spent over a decade working intuitively 1-to-1 as a bodywork therapist and yoga teacher with professional soulful women to alleviate stress; before switching my focus to empowering them instead.
Along the way, a wonderful client named me her Peaceful Pathfinder – because I helped her find the suppressed purpose and peace underlying her stress, enabling her to release what was holding her back and start walking her true path. This helped me see how powerful the work of reconnecting women to themselves truly was.
Since then I’ve worked with soulful women who felt lost, unfulfilled, frustrated and like time was running out. Some have gone on to write books, speak on stage, start their dream career, relocate, overcome crippling personal circumstances and experience far greater success than they thought possible – even those who had no clear idea what they were here for and were running on empty.
Like you, these women live normal life, juggle work and family and deal with doubts and insecurities – but because everything they do is now infused with a clear sense of purpose – they’ve uncovered the secret to achieving their dreams without compromising their values.
This is their version of soulful success.
You are the panacea you seek. Master yourself and you can master your world..Helen Rebello
You deserve your version too – which is why I created my signature system, the #SoulGoals Manifesto Map.
It guides you step-by-step along a simple pathway, giving you the clarity, confidence and courage you need to bridge the gap between who you feel you are on the inside and how you show up in the world on the outside.
When you build your life and work, step-by-step, around who you truly are, what you came here to do, and what you want from your life, you’ll unlock the path to your unique soulful success.
This is how you do life differently – I call it a #peacefulrebellion… and I would love to invite you to join in…
To learn more (and find out what blocks you), click below to apply for a possibility call. (Shouty people that want cookie-cutter formulas need not apply!)
Society defines me by the letters I have after my name: BSc Hons, PgDip, DipBSS-Do, RCST, RYT200 – but these are merely a small part of a much bigger picture, one which has brought me to right here, to this point, to a place where I feel utterly sure I can access all that I need to help you.
A lot of that picture comes from my training and experience, but an even bigger part stems from years of uncovering, rediscovering, unveiling and owning who I am here to be. It comes from finally being able to sit comfortably in my body, unafraid to share my inner wisdom, and unafraid to show you who I am. I have learned that we are all born with an utterly unique blueprint, our essence – which contains the core of what we need to know, what we are here to contribute, and what we need to learn.
I forgot about my blueprint, my uniqueness, what I had to offer of value, for a very long time. We all forget. We bow down to society demands and expectations, we unwittingly take criticism and negative messages on board, we people-please, learn to stay ‘under the radar’ and we slowly build layers of protection around us – until eventually our inner essence becomes so tightly locked up inside us, that we forget it is even there.
This was me for a very long time. Until I learned how to start listening to my body, start heeding its messages, and I started following the breadcrumb trail that led me through an amazing journey of learning incredible things that helped me fully embody myself again, and that can also help you do that too.
The details for the
nosy curious people:
Aka how I got from the start, through a tunnel, and back out to the brightness...
I was definitely put on this earth to help people and that theme has been running in the background of my life for as far back as I remember. I have always been the sensitive one that could physically ‘feel’ other people’s pain and see the things they were hiding behind a veil of being ‘alright’ when others hurt them, and I was always the one smoothing the way and making things better, even though I didn’t always know how…
Growing up, I knew that I was different – I didn’t know then that it was because I was so acutely aware of everything around me and I saw things that others didn’t notice, because I was awake and aware and bright and excitable. I loved to daydream and read and write and climb trees, and I was equally happy with others, or on my own.
I didn’t fit in. Over time, I started to believe other people’s messages that I wasn’t good enough, and I quietly started to retreat. I forgot that I was bright and awake and I learned how to stay quiet and keep under the radar. As a teenager I found ways to escape the world – mostly involving illegal substances and self-destructive habits, and inevitably I ended up lost and severely depressed.
Into the Wilderness
The ‘Wilderness Years’ followed, where lots of ‘bad things’ happened – until the day I was brought up short by the death of a close friend to cancer. The day after she died, a very clear message sounded in my head – I don’t know exactly where it came from, but it was the first time I started listening to my inner wisdom, to my gut, my intuition – and although it took years, this thought started the process of turning my life around.
The message was: ‘Would I feel cheated if I died tomorrow?’
The answer, clearly, was YES. Because I hadn’t even ‘started’ yet – at 24, I still had this sense that I was waiting for something – but in the meantime I was sleepwalking through life and had forgotten my uniqueness…
I realised I had been gifted with intelligence and I owed it to myself to use it, so I started thinking about what I loved to do and what I was good at, and I decided to do a Radiography degree. I was still not fully listening to my heart, because what my heart wanted to do was an English degree, but I let my head win, and I chose the vocational route.
Needless to say, after ‘not very long’, I knew this wasn’t right for me, so I trained in ultrasound too… but for a myriad of reasons, this eventually wasn’t right either. I was getting tired of not ‘finding my thing’ by now after so much hard work, and I started to fall back into my self-destructive habits, doing things that didn’t honour me and retreating again, back into depression and anxiety.
Around this time, I was lucky enough to have a friend that saw something in me I couldn’t see, and because of this, I was set-up on a blind date with my soul-mate, Gavin. This was my second wake-up call – because he loved me enough to be my champion, my mentor, and my challenger. He wouldn’t let me fall into a pit, and he helped me to start seeing my inner value again – he helped me to start becoming a better version of myself, whilst I helped him do the same.
Again I started listening, and I decided to honour my desire to help people, in a different way to the conveyor-belt of the NHS. I started practising yoga and meditation, reading self-development books and spent years training in Shiatsu, Cranio-Sacral Therapy and more recently, Yoga.
The subsequent meandering self-development pathway has led me to where I now am – the protection layers are peeling back, my heart is open again, I remember my uniqueness, I remember my voice, I hear my inner wisdom, I am committed to honouring myself, committed to helping others, and committed to staying awake, aware and shining as brightly as I possibly can!
This is not to say that the intervening years haven’t had other wake-up calls – because they have. I have navigated my way through a lot of emotional and physical trauma, I’ve cheated death and I’ve been through major surgery – twice. 2015 sadly saw the loss of my 39 year-old sis-in-law Toni to cancer, which has created a whole new level of understanding, focus and determination to step up and serve.
Luckily, my ‘tool box’ means I’ve come out the other side of life’s challenges with a huge appreciation for life, a love of people and nature, and a genuinely positive outlook. The steps are simple – acceptance, trust, alignment, connection, nourishment, mindfulness, stillness and grounding. The time taken to walk them with some level of skill is infinite – but I guarantee you’ll have a lot of fun, ease and space on your journey!
I’ve always seen the beauty in every person, from babies through to octogenarians, from people that are bright and full of life, or those that are downtrodden and exhausted – whatever their story, however deeply hidden, I’ve always seen the bright sparkling light within every person. It is there inside you. I know that like I know I breathe. I want you to know it and feel it too…
Having experienced my own, very disturbed wilderness years and emerged the other side, stronger and brighter, I now firmly believe we all have a reason for being here. Our challenges arm us with resources to deal with whatever comes our way, even if we don’t always know it at the time. The things that happen to us teach us valuable lessons and form a pathway, which whilst convoluted, always makes sense one day – and then we’re able to put the jigsaw pieces together, shed our layers, unveil our unique essence and shine brightly again.
We all have a divine right to live our lives as fully as possible – which means we need to honour who we are, what we came here for and show up as we are. We do this by listening to our hearts, optimising our energy, freeing up our bodies, living with awareness, purpose and presence, staying endlessly curious and grateful for each day, and loving and laughing whenever possible!
My wish is that my work will help start that process for you – because life is too short to spend it living unconsciously, speeding unaware to someone else’s idea of success.
I am fully insured and registered with the Complementary and Natural Health Care Council. I am a registered Yoga Teacher with Yoga Alliance Professionals. This accreditation demonstrates excellent standards as set by Yoga Alliance Professionals. I have a natural appreciation of the need for client confidentiality, and offer an empathic and non-judgemental service, seeing my practice as a two-way partnership – my work can have miraculous effects in someone who is ready to take the steps to their desired outcome and meet me half way.